You know the story — your friends warned you, your family hinted, but you didn’t listen. You fell fast, ignored the red flags, and ended up wondering how it all went wrong.
It happens because love messes with your brain. Studies show that being in love literally quiets the parts of your mind responsible for logic and judgment. So yeah, love makes you blind… and sometimes a little dumb.
That’s why smart dating isn’t about being cold — it’s about being aware. Before giving your heart away, take time to really see the person. Dr. John Van Epp suggests knowing their F.A.C.E.S. — family, attitude, compatibility, experience, and skills in relationships.
Meet their people. Watch how they talk about others. Notice how they react when things don’t go their way. Patterns tell you more than promises ever will.
Love doesn’t mean rushing in — it means choosing wisely who you’ll rush with.
